Over the last couple of years, visiting Elliot, NY is feeling more and more like home. Especially now, since he owns his own home and I am now returning to the same house time and time again.
On this particular trip, I arrived in early afternoon on Wednesday, Oct 14. Elliot was at work and I felt very comfortable taking the AirTrain from JFK over to Jamaica Station; then taking the Long Island RR over to Freeport; then grabbing a cab to the house.
Nong was at home and after settling in for a few minutes, he and I set off walking into Freeport. We got some pizza and came back home. Later in the afternoon, the rain began and basically didn't stop till Sunday. We ate Cozymel's in Westbury. A very good Mexican Restaurant.
On Thursday, Nong went to the city for the day, and I went with Elliot to take a couple of dogs to the vet and then onto his office. While he worked, I read. We had a late lunch, then I went back to the office to read more.
On Friday, I stayed home with Nong. We shopped at Costco and Target. I cooked dinner. I made Elliot's favorites; chicken pie, mac n chesse and Squash Casserole. He loved it. We hung out and watched movies.
On Saturday, we took Dumbledore, Penny and Mugsy for a walk between rain showers. While walking, Jessica calls to tell me that she totalled her car, trying to avoid a deer. UGH! something else to worry about...getting her a car. I must admit...I didn't handle that phone call very well.
Sunday, we sleep late, moved the living room into the dining room and moved the grand piano from the dining room into the living room. It looks great. The Living Room now has more of a DEN feeling...very cozy. In the afternoon later, we went over to visit Amy and Victor in East Rockaway. I was thrilled to know that Amy's mom, Sue, was visiting from Cleveland. I don't care if they are Linda's family, I still like them. Elliot and I took Pizza over and hung there for a couple of hours. After we got home, we hung out with Nong and watched movies.
On Monday, Elliot and Nong went to work, leaving me home for the day. I putzed around in the morning and in the afternoon, walked into the village for a bit. In the evening, Elliot and I ate at a new restaurant in the village. It was good, but overpriced.
On Tuesday, I went to work with Elliot while his VP and he make instructional videos for their customers. I helped them with the videos. It was fun. We got home pretty late. Thank goodness Nong had made dinner.
On Wednesday, Elliot and I went into the city for the day. He had a trade show to go too. I went along for a while and then left and did my own thing. Later in the day, Elliot caught up with me and we went to the MET (Metropolitan Museum of Art). Hands down, it was the best museum I have ever been too. We stayed for a couple of hours, but needed a whole day. We got home fairly early and went to dinner at the Cheesecake Factory.
All of my days were filled playing with the Poms. I love them so much...they are so cute and so well behaved.
I did pretty well coming home on Thursday. No tears....However, after I got home, I got really sad for a bit. Not only did I miss Elliot, Nong and the pups, but I missed NY. I really like it there...It feels like home.....a place I should be.....Sounds crazy....who knows what the future holds
Monday, October 26, 2009
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Update on Mugsy
Mugsy came home on Tuesday night. He is heavily medicated for pain and is on antibiotics. Elliot says he is quite out of it. Bless his little heart ! Hold On Mugsy !! Granddad is on his way !! I'll be there by 2 this afternoon !! And you will feel much better.
My Poor Little Grand Dog - Mugsy !
Elliot called last evening, in a panic ! He was holding Mugsy and I could hear my little pup crying in the background. Elliot says that he was just freaking out...He thinks it has something to do with the Bio - Spot that Nong put on him a couple of days prior. Elliot had already taken him to his vet and they had not very much for him and after getting back home, Mugsy had gotton worse. Elliot was in a panic.
I looked up online the side effects of Bio Spot reactions....After realizing many dogs who had allergic responses, died, I called a 24 hour Emergency Vet in his area and got an appt.
Elliot got him there and they put him on IVs and a heavy tranquilizer. Elliot had to leave him for the night and we can't get any information until later today !! UGH ! Hang in their Mugsy ! We love you !
I looked up online the side effects of Bio Spot reactions....After realizing many dogs who had allergic responses, died, I called a 24 hour Emergency Vet in his area and got an appt.
Elliot got him there and they put him on IVs and a heavy tranquilizer. Elliot had to leave him for the night and we can't get any information until later today !! UGH ! Hang in their Mugsy ! We love you !
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Faith
Over the last few years...I've been through alot...and my faith in God has taken a beating. Hmm...Not sure if my faith in God has taken as much of a beating as my faith in "God's People".
I'm not attempting to sound as if I'm a little angel or that I have done everything perfectly leading up to my separation and divorce. However, "The Church" / "God's People" were less than loving during it all.
The day that I moved out from my ex wife....she had attempted a "sneak attack" and had invited some people over for an "intervention". She laid out her case against me....I had nothing to say. I could have attacked her in front of these so called friends...I had solid evidence of her failures in the marriage...but what good would that have done? In my mind the marriage was already dead....I already had an apartment...It was just a matter of timing. So, I just moved out.
I was judged by people who considered me their best friend , as well as, the church I attended; with people who barely knew me. What was the crime ? Owning up to the truth ! Owning up to the fact, that this marriage had been dead for years and that we were only together for the children ? I will own and take responsibility for the way I ended up moving out...I should have sat the ex wife down and told her 2 months earlier of my intent on ending the marriage. However, I was a coward. I kept dragging out the inevitable. I should have been more of a man and just ended it instead of dragging it out.
However, the "Church / God's People" were silent to me except for a couple of very cold letters telling me how horrible I was....the disappointment I was....I NEVER got a letter or phone call asking me how I was...or are you ok ?
The reaction of "The Church" sent me into a downward spiral on my already faltering faith. As a conservative christian, I was struggling with being Gay and aligning myself to the Bible. I remained out of church for almost 4 years and my relationship with God damaged to the point of almost unbelief.
In 2008, I began attending a Progressive Church which accepts both straight and gay, equally. I am making the right steps...but far from where I would hope to be by now. I, truly, believe in a personal relationship with Jesus. A relationship that is about love, acceptance, worship, obedience. A relationship that causes me to be more like him...a more loving person.
God...Help me put some of this past behind me....Help me trust you....Help me believe that you love me for who I am...because you created me in your image....And you don't make mistakes.
I'm not attempting to sound as if I'm a little angel or that I have done everything perfectly leading up to my separation and divorce. However, "The Church" / "God's People" were less than loving during it all.
The day that I moved out from my ex wife....she had attempted a "sneak attack" and had invited some people over for an "intervention". She laid out her case against me....I had nothing to say. I could have attacked her in front of these so called friends...I had solid evidence of her failures in the marriage...but what good would that have done? In my mind the marriage was already dead....I already had an apartment...It was just a matter of timing. So, I just moved out.
I was judged by people who considered me their best friend , as well as, the church I attended; with people who barely knew me. What was the crime ? Owning up to the truth ! Owning up to the fact, that this marriage had been dead for years and that we were only together for the children ? I will own and take responsibility for the way I ended up moving out...I should have sat the ex wife down and told her 2 months earlier of my intent on ending the marriage. However, I was a coward. I kept dragging out the inevitable. I should have been more of a man and just ended it instead of dragging it out.
However, the "Church / God's People" were silent to me except for a couple of very cold letters telling me how horrible I was....the disappointment I was....I NEVER got a letter or phone call asking me how I was...or are you ok ?
The reaction of "The Church" sent me into a downward spiral on my already faltering faith. As a conservative christian, I was struggling with being Gay and aligning myself to the Bible. I remained out of church for almost 4 years and my relationship with God damaged to the point of almost unbelief.
In 2008, I began attending a Progressive Church which accepts both straight and gay, equally. I am making the right steps...but far from where I would hope to be by now. I, truly, believe in a personal relationship with Jesus. A relationship that is about love, acceptance, worship, obedience. A relationship that causes me to be more like him...a more loving person.
God...Help me put some of this past behind me....Help me trust you....Help me believe that you love me for who I am...because you created me in your image....And you don't make mistakes.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Leaving for NYC on Wednesay, Oct 14
YAY ! I'm excited to be visiting my oldest boy this week....I'm heading to NY on Wednesday Morning. However, alot has to take place before I leave....Grocery Store...Bank...3 more nights at American Express...2 more short shifts at Pier One.....packing....UGH ! I think Wednesday may be a blur ! I may be just exhausted.
I checked the weather for NY....Looks like the days will be low 60's or high 50's...nights in the 40's...but sad to say....seems like a lot of rain while i'm there....
I'm excited to see the granddogs !! I miss that ole Mugsy and Bella....Dumbledore, Orange Juice, and Penny ...
I don't really have a clue what we'll be doing while I'm there...I'm taking a couple of books...my laptop from work (only if I get totally bored)...
I'm hoping I'll get to hang out at the beach some...taking walks....I always get rejuvenated when at the seaside. I'm sure we'll go into the city a few times...as well.
I'm just happy to be there, visiting my son !
I checked the weather for NY....Looks like the days will be low 60's or high 50's...nights in the 40's...but sad to say....seems like a lot of rain while i'm there....
I'm excited to see the granddogs !! I miss that ole Mugsy and Bella....Dumbledore, Orange Juice, and Penny ...
I don't really have a clue what we'll be doing while I'm there...I'm taking a couple of books...my laptop from work (only if I get totally bored)...
I'm hoping I'll get to hang out at the beach some...taking walks....I always get rejuvenated when at the seaside. I'm sure we'll go into the city a few times...as well.
I'm just happy to be there, visiting my son !
Thursday, October 8, 2009
God Bless The USA
God Bless The USA
by Lee Greenwood
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If tomorrow all the things were gone, I’d worked for all my life. And I had to start again, with just my children and my wife.
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I’d thank my lucky stars, to be livin here today. ‘Cause the flag still stands for freedom, and they can’t take that away.
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And I’m proud to be an American, where at least I know I’m free. And I wont forget the men who died, who gave that right to me.
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And I gladly stand up, next to you and defend her still today. ‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land, God bless the USA.
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From the lakes of Minnesota, to the hills of Tennessee. Across the plains of Texas, From sea to shining sea.
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From Detroit down to Houston, and New York to L.A. Well there's pride in every American heart,and its time we stand and say.
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That I’m proud to be an American, where at least I know I’m free. And I wont forget the men who died, who gave that right to me.
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And I gladly stand up,next to you and defend her still today. ‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land, God bless the USA.
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And I’m proud to be and American, where at least I know I’m free. And I wont forget the men who died, who gave that right to me.
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And I gladly stand up, next to you and defend her still today. ‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land, God bless the USA.
"There is no remedy for love but to love more."
Henry David Thoreau
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"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."
Aristotle
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What a beautiful mess, what a beautiful mess I'm in spending all my time with you There's nothing else I'd rather do. What a sweet addiction that I'm caught up in, cause I can't get enough Can't stop the hunger for your love. What a beautiful mess, what a beautiful mess I'm in.
(Chorus: Beautiful Mess) Diamond Rio
Monday, October 5, 2009
Fall 2009
So Far, Fall 2009 has been absolutely beautiful. The Corn Fields behind my house have been picked and mowed. The Dogs and I have been walking the perimeter everyday...enjoying the fresh, crisp air, and light breeze. I have noticed that the fruit trees are heavy with fruit. My aging Uncle, next door says that it is a sign of a hard winter. The Persimmon Tree, Pecan Trees, Apple Tree, all are loaded with fruit; to the point that the limbs are straining to not break.
I have so enjoyed sitting on the deck in the mornings, drinking hot tea and reading...lol..and dozing...
I leave for NYC on Wednesday, Oct 14, to visit my eldest son for about 9 days. I've been keeping track of the weather and it looks like it will be very nice for my visit...Highs around 60 and lows in the 40's. I'm looking forward to a couple of days on the beach...reading...and napping.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Fall 2009 (Sept 30, Oct 1 - 3 )
Wow....What beautiful weather we are having here in NC. The days are in the high 60's /low 70's and the nights are in the mid 50's. Absolutely perfect temps. The windows are open...and fresh air is pouring into the house.
Hands down, Fall is my most favorite season. The Crisp Air, the bright blue sky, the trees so filled with color....How can anyone doubt the existence of GOD. Only the Almighty himself could be this artistic and creative. Thank You...Thank You GOD for such beauty and splendor.
I must say, I have enjoyed the last days off as much as any days in recent YEARS....I, actually, had my normal 3 days off from American Express and at the same time, 2 of the days, I was off at my part time job at Pier One, as well.
On Thursday, I washed windows and did some very thorough deep cleaning in my family room, kitchen and bedroom. It felt so good to have it done. The house looks quite nice at the moment...LOL...The Children haven't had time to mess it up yet ! On Friday, I did Laundry, and made Lasagna for the kids and Rodney. Ah...the mention of another man !! Hmmm! Who is Rodney ?! I'm not telling, yet ! I can say he is a very, very good friend...lol...My current "Man-Friend ! I'll leave it there for the moment.
We had dinner on the deck...It was quite enjoyable..I really like having the family time with the kids and having Rodney there. Rodney, Jessica and I went to see a movie...."The Invention of Lying"....The critics give it a "B" rating. I think a "C" is more accurate. It just didn't do all that for me.
On Saturday, I took Andrew to a wrestling tournament at his high school...His mom and her husband, Mike came, as well. I sat for 3 1/2 hours waiting for Andrew to wrestle...Finally, I left at noon. Mike texted me at 2 to let me know that he just wrestled the first time. After getting home, shortly after noon, I took the dogs for a walk in the freshly mowed field....came back and sat on the deck and read for a while....I'm reading a really good book...."The Six Wives of Henry VIII" by Alison Weir. It's very well written and I get lost in reading. Rodney stopped by at 2:30 and asked if I would ride to Raleigh with him for a bit. I was happy he invited me and I accepted the invitation. We had a really nice afternoon. I got home around 6:45...jumped in bed...surrounded by the "pups" and napped till time to come to work.
It was just nice to have a couple of days off and not think of work...just work around the house...cook...find time to read..nap and spend time with the family and people you love....Doesn't get much better than this !
Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns. George Eliot
"I cannot endure to waste anything as precious as autumn sunshine by staying in the house. So I spend almost all the daylight hours in the open air.- Nathaniel Hawthorne
Hands down, Fall is my most favorite season. The Crisp Air, the bright blue sky, the trees so filled with color....How can anyone doubt the existence of GOD. Only the Almighty himself could be this artistic and creative. Thank You...Thank You GOD for such beauty and splendor.
I must say, I have enjoyed the last days off as much as any days in recent YEARS....I, actually, had my normal 3 days off from American Express and at the same time, 2 of the days, I was off at my part time job at Pier One, as well.
On Thursday, I washed windows and did some very thorough deep cleaning in my family room, kitchen and bedroom. It felt so good to have it done. The house looks quite nice at the moment...LOL...The Children haven't had time to mess it up yet ! On Friday, I did Laundry, and made Lasagna for the kids and Rodney. Ah...the mention of another man !! Hmmm! Who is Rodney ?! I'm not telling, yet ! I can say he is a very, very good friend...lol...My current "Man-Friend ! I'll leave it there for the moment.
We had dinner on the deck...It was quite enjoyable..I really like having the family time with the kids and having Rodney there. Rodney, Jessica and I went to see a movie...."The Invention of Lying"....The critics give it a "B" rating. I think a "C" is more accurate. It just didn't do all that for me.
On Saturday, I took Andrew to a wrestling tournament at his high school...His mom and her husband, Mike came, as well. I sat for 3 1/2 hours waiting for Andrew to wrestle...Finally, I left at noon. Mike texted me at 2 to let me know that he just wrestled the first time. After getting home, shortly after noon, I took the dogs for a walk in the freshly mowed field....came back and sat on the deck and read for a while....I'm reading a really good book...."The Six Wives of Henry VIII" by Alison Weir. It's very well written and I get lost in reading. Rodney stopped by at 2:30 and asked if I would ride to Raleigh with him for a bit. I was happy he invited me and I accepted the invitation. We had a really nice afternoon. I got home around 6:45...jumped in bed...surrounded by the "pups" and napped till time to come to work.
It was just nice to have a couple of days off and not think of work...just work around the house...cook...find time to read..nap and spend time with the family and people you love....Doesn't get much better than this !
Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns. George Eliot
"I cannot endure to waste anything as precious as autumn sunshine by staying in the house. So I spend almost all the daylight hours in the open air.- Nathaniel Hawthorne
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
TED KENNEDY
A very good pictoral of his life by the Boston Globe....
http://www.boston.com/bigpicture/2009/08/senator_ted_kennedy_19322009.html
http://www.boston.com/bigpicture/2009/08/senator_ted_kennedy_19322009.html
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Where Did the Time Go ! Mid-July, August, September
I cannot believe that October is just next week. Where has 2009 gone ? I think because it's been such a busy year, it's made the time go by even faster.....Therefore, I'm going to try to update what's been going on over the last months:
July
July was a busy month, but a good month. Andrew was in Cleveland for most of the month. He left in late June to spend about 5 weeks with his granparents and friends there. He came home on Wednesday, July 22, and we left Thursday, July 23, for NYC to visit Elliot.
Jessica spent 10 days in Cleveland in July and seemed to have a good time, but was definitely ready to come home. She likes her life here.
My schedule at American Express changed on July 6, after the layoffs kicked in. I started a new schedule, giving me Wed, Thur., and Fridays off. It's nice to have one weekend day off, but it has been a difficult adjustment. I'm just thankful I have a job.
Jessica, Andrew and I left for NYC to visit Elliot and Nong on Thursday night, July 23. It was a long drive...but a good drive. Jessica drove most of the way. I didn't drive until we got into New Jersey. It was nice to share the driving with someone.
It was so cute watching Andrew's face as we crossed from New Jersey into NYC. He was wide awake and excited to see all the tall buildings. Jessica, too, was bright eyed, even though she had been to NYC once before. We got out to Freeport on Long Island and unloaded the car and went to bed , while Elliot headed to work. The kids and I got up around 1 and decided to go get a bite to eat at the local diner. As we were heading over, Elliot texted to say he was joining us....What a nice surprise ! His boss sent him home for rest of the week, being Elliot had us in town. How nice of him ! I have no way of remembering everything we did while we were there, but I can hit the highlights: we went to the beach most every evening to walk and talk as a family. I was in heaven, having my whole family together. During our stay, we went into the City about 3 or 4 times. It was way fun...and expensive. In the city, we rode the Staten Island Ferry, rode the subways up and down the city, saw Temple Emanuel, St. Patrick's Cathedral, shopped in China Town, saw a movie in Chelsea, spent time in Central Park, people watching ! I still think my best times of the whole trip, were when we were together as a family at the beach.
Another highlight of the trip, was visiting Victor, Amy, Savannah, Sue and the new baby. We all went to visit Amy, Victor, Savannah and "Grammy Sue", before the baby was born. We had such a nice evening, chatting and catching up. It's so nice to still be close to a few of Linda's relatives...I spent so many years with them, I just can't turn off my feelings of family toward them. Likewise, they have been close to me, as well, and very welcoming.
JULY NEWS: Walter Cronkite of the CBS Evening News died on July 17. He was the TV Anchorman I grew up with...."And that's the way it is"...was the famous line I heard every night when he finished his newscast.
AUG
August began with us in NYC. We came home on the Aug 5. We stayed a couple of extra days so we could visit with Cousin Sue's other daughter, Cathy. She was driving in from Cleveland to visit Amy and the new baby. I hadn't seen Cathy in about 5 years....way to long...so it was a thrill to stay a couple of extra days to visit.
When we left, I drove us into New Jersey, where Andrew took up driving...the first time he had driven in 2 weeks...No way was I letting him drive around NY...way to crazy. Anyway, Andrew drove from New Jersey till the lower part of DC, until Andrew almost bought us a bumper off a BMW...That's when Jessica took up driving the rest of the way.
After getting home, the countdown was on for Jessica to move on Campus at UNC G. It was not nearly as traumatic as I had imagined. Alot of it has had to do with Jessica coming home frequently. She pops in around 3 - 4 times a week. LOL....Not sure why, but I'm not going to complain.
Andrew has started 10th Grade and seems a little more serious about studying this year. He is quite aware, there will be no driver's license and no talk of a car if his grades are unacceptable.
In addition to all the children's lives being busy, I met someone towards the middle of August. A very attractive and sweet man. He could be seeing anyone, but for some reason, he is interested in seeing me. I must admit, I am insecure because he is so attractive, but he has such a sweet personality.
AUG NEWS: As far as I'm concerned, the big news of August was the death of Senator Ted Kennedy on Aug 25. I was glued to the TV in the days following...watching history before me...It was just incredible the amount of people who loved and respected him. His funeral was just incredible...not only was it regal, but a true tribute to him as a man, husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, friend, senator and Christian. I was so moved to hear his children pay tribute to their father. I have to say in all honesty, I never had that type of relationship with my dad, and can't imagine paying that kind of tribute.
Princess Diana died 12 years ago on Aug 31. It seems like yesterday.
SEPT
The kids are well. Jessica and Andrew have settled into their routines at school. Elliot's job continues to keep him busy. I've decided to take a trip to NYC to see him in Oct. I'm going up mid-month and staying for about a week. Got my tickets with the ole reliable Jetblue.
Andrew has settled into his Wrestling practices and really seems to like it. Jessica has a BF. Kaleb is his name. He's a cutie...very nice young man.
My guy and I are still seeing one another. We really have a great friendship. However, there are some things occurring which are giving me concern, which will not be discussed here....just yet !! :) . We have been enjoying going out weekly on our 'dates'...consisting usually of dinner and a movie. I'm really having to guard my heart..I know I could fall for him.
Also, I was put oncall for the first time for the software that I support at my office.....It was a months rotation....It really wasn't to bad. It could have been much worse.
SEPT NEWS:
William Hoffman, An American Novelist, died Sept 12. He had done a reading at my old church, Christ Church, years ago. I was a big fan of his work and have several of his works.
Patrick Swayze died on Sept 14. He was best known for playing in 'Dirty Dancin'. I was quite impressed he had been married 34 years to his high school sweetheart. He died of Pancreatic Cancer. The same horrible cancer that took my Aunt Katy.
Also, Sept 11, 2009 was 8 years after the World Trade Center, Pentagon, and Pennsylvania field tragedy...Still unbelievable. As I watched the news, reliving that day, all the emotions still come to the surface. It was an unbelievable time in our country's history.
July
July was a busy month, but a good month. Andrew was in Cleveland for most of the month. He left in late June to spend about 5 weeks with his granparents and friends there. He came home on Wednesday, July 22, and we left Thursday, July 23, for NYC to visit Elliot.
Jessica spent 10 days in Cleveland in July and seemed to have a good time, but was definitely ready to come home. She likes her life here.
My schedule at American Express changed on July 6, after the layoffs kicked in. I started a new schedule, giving me Wed, Thur., and Fridays off. It's nice to have one weekend day off, but it has been a difficult adjustment. I'm just thankful I have a job.
Jessica, Andrew and I left for NYC to visit Elliot and Nong on Thursday night, July 23. It was a long drive...but a good drive. Jessica drove most of the way. I didn't drive until we got into New Jersey. It was nice to share the driving with someone.
It was so cute watching Andrew's face as we crossed from New Jersey into NYC. He was wide awake and excited to see all the tall buildings. Jessica, too, was bright eyed, even though she had been to NYC once before. We got out to Freeport on Long Island and unloaded the car and went to bed , while Elliot headed to work. The kids and I got up around 1 and decided to go get a bite to eat at the local diner. As we were heading over, Elliot texted to say he was joining us....What a nice surprise ! His boss sent him home for rest of the week, being Elliot had us in town. How nice of him ! I have no way of remembering everything we did while we were there, but I can hit the highlights: we went to the beach most every evening to walk and talk as a family. I was in heaven, having my whole family together. During our stay, we went into the City about 3 or 4 times. It was way fun...and expensive. In the city, we rode the Staten Island Ferry, rode the subways up and down the city, saw Temple Emanuel, St. Patrick's Cathedral, shopped in China Town, saw a movie in Chelsea, spent time in Central Park, people watching ! I still think my best times of the whole trip, were when we were together as a family at the beach.
Another highlight of the trip, was visiting Victor, Amy, Savannah, Sue and the new baby. We all went to visit Amy, Victor, Savannah and "Grammy Sue", before the baby was born. We had such a nice evening, chatting and catching up. It's so nice to still be close to a few of Linda's relatives...I spent so many years with them, I just can't turn off my feelings of family toward them. Likewise, they have been close to me, as well, and very welcoming.
JULY NEWS: Walter Cronkite of the CBS Evening News died on July 17. He was the TV Anchorman I grew up with...."And that's the way it is"...was the famous line I heard every night when he finished his newscast.
AUG
August began with us in NYC. We came home on the Aug 5. We stayed a couple of extra days so we could visit with Cousin Sue's other daughter, Cathy. She was driving in from Cleveland to visit Amy and the new baby. I hadn't seen Cathy in about 5 years....way to long...so it was a thrill to stay a couple of extra days to visit.
When we left, I drove us into New Jersey, where Andrew took up driving...the first time he had driven in 2 weeks...No way was I letting him drive around NY...way to crazy. Anyway, Andrew drove from New Jersey till the lower part of DC, until Andrew almost bought us a bumper off a BMW...That's when Jessica took up driving the rest of the way.
After getting home, the countdown was on for Jessica to move on Campus at UNC G. It was not nearly as traumatic as I had imagined. Alot of it has had to do with Jessica coming home frequently. She pops in around 3 - 4 times a week. LOL....Not sure why, but I'm not going to complain.
Andrew has started 10th Grade and seems a little more serious about studying this year. He is quite aware, there will be no driver's license and no talk of a car if his grades are unacceptable.
In addition to all the children's lives being busy, I met someone towards the middle of August. A very attractive and sweet man. He could be seeing anyone, but for some reason, he is interested in seeing me. I must admit, I am insecure because he is so attractive, but he has such a sweet personality.
AUG NEWS: As far as I'm concerned, the big news of August was the death of Senator Ted Kennedy on Aug 25. I was glued to the TV in the days following...watching history before me...It was just incredible the amount of people who loved and respected him. His funeral was just incredible...not only was it regal, but a true tribute to him as a man, husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, friend, senator and Christian. I was so moved to hear his children pay tribute to their father. I have to say in all honesty, I never had that type of relationship with my dad, and can't imagine paying that kind of tribute.
Princess Diana died 12 years ago on Aug 31. It seems like yesterday.
SEPT
The kids are well. Jessica and Andrew have settled into their routines at school. Elliot's job continues to keep him busy. I've decided to take a trip to NYC to see him in Oct. I'm going up mid-month and staying for about a week. Got my tickets with the ole reliable Jetblue.
Andrew has settled into his Wrestling practices and really seems to like it. Jessica has a BF. Kaleb is his name. He's a cutie...very nice young man.
My guy and I are still seeing one another. We really have a great friendship. However, there are some things occurring which are giving me concern, which will not be discussed here....just yet !! :) . We have been enjoying going out weekly on our 'dates'...consisting usually of dinner and a movie. I'm really having to guard my heart..I know I could fall for him.
Also, I was put oncall for the first time for the software that I support at my office.....It was a months rotation....It really wasn't to bad. It could have been much worse.
SEPT NEWS:
William Hoffman, An American Novelist, died Sept 12. He had done a reading at my old church, Christ Church, years ago. I was a big fan of his work and have several of his works.
Patrick Swayze died on Sept 14. He was best known for playing in 'Dirty Dancin'. I was quite impressed he had been married 34 years to his high school sweetheart. He died of Pancreatic Cancer. The same horrible cancer that took my Aunt Katy.
Also, Sept 11, 2009 was 8 years after the World Trade Center, Pentagon, and Pennsylvania field tragedy...Still unbelievable. As I watched the news, reliving that day, all the emotions still come to the surface. It was an unbelievable time in our country's history.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
What a Week !
What a busy week ! I transitioned into my new schedule, which meant working 6 days straight, 10 hours a day. Fortunately, Tuesday night ( which is now my Friday), there was enough staff here that I could leave early and get a head start on my sleep. For some odd reason, I woke up after about 5 hours asleep at 9 AM. I knew my mom and my cousin, Kaye, were going to my Aunt Dot's home, to start packing it up and being I had the day free, I decided to help. I'm hoping by helping pack up Aunt Dot's house, I will be able to have a sense of closure to this part of her life and embrace the new phase of her life in an assisted living facility.
I get to her house around 10 AM ; mom is already there and Kaye arrives shortly after. I don't think any of us really wanted to start going through her belongings and begin discarding trash, setting aside things we wanted to keep or give to family, or set aside for the yard sale we are having in the fall. Finally, we went into the Living Room and began packing up the items that Aunt Dot and mom had picked out for specific family members. Most of the items were cut glass candy dishes (very very nice, I might add) or figurienes. All of them had a post-it note under or inside them, to let us know what item was to go to whom. We carefully wrapped each item, and most went into my car to take to the relatives out at the farm. After packing up the living room, we went back to the guest bedroom and started going thru the Lane Trunk that Aunt Dot is giving Jessica. Most every thing inside was related to knitting, but at the bottom, we found a treasure. We discovered 3 very old quilts. Kaye and I called mom back to the room and when she saw them, she recognized them as her mother's (my grandmother's) quilts. There was one for each of us....but in the end, Kaye and mom decided to leave theirs in the trunk and give them to Jessica, as well. I was so touched.
Aunt Dot has already given Jessica her 2 Wing Backed Chairs in her living room, because Jessica has always loved them since she was just a little girl. They will have to be recovered, but they have good "bones". She, also, has given Jessica 2 pretty Milk Glass containers that used to sit on her dresser. Aunt Dot has already given me her Bedroom set. It is absolutely beautiful... Solid Mahogany, 4 Post Bed, with a beautiful solid Mahogany Dresser and Mirror.
After all the packing and grabbing lunch with my cousin, Kaye and my mom, I went and visited Aunt Dot at the Assisted Living Facility. She has a bright room. She shares a room with another lady. She has a nicer TV than me. It's a large flat panel TV in the corner. Work it Aunt Dot ! We had a nice chat. She mentioned how she had such a small room and a big empty house and how she should just go back home. I tried to rationalize with her, but I found it to be more important to let her vent and talk about how she was feeling. I can't even fathom what is really going on in her head....She's lived 55 years and almost a month in the same home...and now she's been uprooted and moved into a strange facility, even though they have done their very best to make it look as "homey" as possible.
Later, My Mom and I went to see the movie, THE PROPOSAL. It was outstandingly funny ! I laughed through the whole movie !! Sandra Bullock and Ryan Reynolds were outstanding.
Afterwards, I needed to drive home and deliver the things that Aunt Dot wanted the family to have. I dropped mom at home, and cried all the way to the farm. I just think the stress from packing Aunt Dot's house had to be released....Packing up someone's belongings of 55 years is just so sad to me. I delivered a fine china set to Uncle Fred and Aunt Helen for my cousin, Pam. I gave Aunt Helen a candy dish that Aunt Dot had picked out for her. Afterwards, I stopped at Uncle Harvey and Aunt Margaret's house and delivered their Candy Dish. It was a long, emotional day.
On Friday, we worked at Aunt Dot's house further. We cleaned out books upon books. We categorized the books in the 3 categories; religious, fiction and cookbooks. I chose a couple of old cookbooks of Aunt Dot's. One was published in 1943....called "MODERN DAY COOKING". I got such a kick out of it. We discovered Aunt Dot's old Bible...given to her in 1946...and found my great Aunt Lou's Bible from 1943. I am thrilled to keep them in the family.
We were exhausted by the end of the day. I couldn't believe how much trash we could dispose. I think Aunt Dot saved every Christmas and Birthday card she ever received ! LOL ! We threw away empty boxes of boxes.
In the evening, I had a friend for dinner....and we watched SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE. It was a very good movie.
Jessica comes home Sunday Afternoon !! Finally !!! 10 days without my Baby girl !! Andrew is still hanging out in Cleveland until July 22.
Elliot has bought a Grand Piano...He's spending alot of time refurbishing it....The Pictures look great ! However, it appears to take up most of the Dining Room. I can't wait to hear him play again.
In 2 weeks we will have already been in NY for a day. I can't wait to see the boy. It will be great to have the whole family together for 2 weeks. I just can't wait !!
I get to her house around 10 AM ; mom is already there and Kaye arrives shortly after. I don't think any of us really wanted to start going through her belongings and begin discarding trash, setting aside things we wanted to keep or give to family, or set aside for the yard sale we are having in the fall. Finally, we went into the Living Room and began packing up the items that Aunt Dot and mom had picked out for specific family members. Most of the items were cut glass candy dishes (very very nice, I might add) or figurienes. All of them had a post-it note under or inside them, to let us know what item was to go to whom. We carefully wrapped each item, and most went into my car to take to the relatives out at the farm. After packing up the living room, we went back to the guest bedroom and started going thru the Lane Trunk that Aunt Dot is giving Jessica. Most every thing inside was related to knitting, but at the bottom, we found a treasure. We discovered 3 very old quilts. Kaye and I called mom back to the room and when she saw them, she recognized them as her mother's (my grandmother's) quilts. There was one for each of us....but in the end, Kaye and mom decided to leave theirs in the trunk and give them to Jessica, as well. I was so touched.
Aunt Dot has already given Jessica her 2 Wing Backed Chairs in her living room, because Jessica has always loved them since she was just a little girl. They will have to be recovered, but they have good "bones". She, also, has given Jessica 2 pretty Milk Glass containers that used to sit on her dresser. Aunt Dot has already given me her Bedroom set. It is absolutely beautiful... Solid Mahogany, 4 Post Bed, with a beautiful solid Mahogany Dresser and Mirror.
After all the packing and grabbing lunch with my cousin, Kaye and my mom, I went and visited Aunt Dot at the Assisted Living Facility. She has a bright room. She shares a room with another lady. She has a nicer TV than me. It's a large flat panel TV in the corner. Work it Aunt Dot ! We had a nice chat. She mentioned how she had such a small room and a big empty house and how she should just go back home. I tried to rationalize with her, but I found it to be more important to let her vent and talk about how she was feeling. I can't even fathom what is really going on in her head....She's lived 55 years and almost a month in the same home...and now she's been uprooted and moved into a strange facility, even though they have done their very best to make it look as "homey" as possible.
Later, My Mom and I went to see the movie, THE PROPOSAL. It was outstandingly funny ! I laughed through the whole movie !! Sandra Bullock and Ryan Reynolds were outstanding.
Afterwards, I needed to drive home and deliver the things that Aunt Dot wanted the family to have. I dropped mom at home, and cried all the way to the farm. I just think the stress from packing Aunt Dot's house had to be released....Packing up someone's belongings of 55 years is just so sad to me. I delivered a fine china set to Uncle Fred and Aunt Helen for my cousin, Pam. I gave Aunt Helen a candy dish that Aunt Dot had picked out for her. Afterwards, I stopped at Uncle Harvey and Aunt Margaret's house and delivered their Candy Dish. It was a long, emotional day.
On Friday, we worked at Aunt Dot's house further. We cleaned out books upon books. We categorized the books in the 3 categories; religious, fiction and cookbooks. I chose a couple of old cookbooks of Aunt Dot's. One was published in 1943....called "MODERN DAY COOKING". I got such a kick out of it. We discovered Aunt Dot's old Bible...given to her in 1946...and found my great Aunt Lou's Bible from 1943. I am thrilled to keep them in the family.
We were exhausted by the end of the day. I couldn't believe how much trash we could dispose. I think Aunt Dot saved every Christmas and Birthday card she ever received ! LOL ! We threw away empty boxes of boxes.
In the evening, I had a friend for dinner....and we watched SLUMDOG MILLIONAIRE. It was a very good movie.
Jessica comes home Sunday Afternoon !! Finally !!! 10 days without my Baby girl !! Andrew is still hanging out in Cleveland until July 22.
Elliot has bought a Grand Piano...He's spending alot of time refurbishing it....The Pictures look great ! However, it appears to take up most of the Dining Room. I can't wait to hear him play again.
In 2 weeks we will have already been in NY for a day. I can't wait to see the boy. It will be great to have the whole family together for 2 weeks. I just can't wait !!
Sunday, July 5, 2009
I HAVE NO TIME TO POST ! UPDATES
Wow....Life has surely been busy...I hardly ever have time to post any more. Since Graduation, my office has done a layoff. Fortunately, I was not impacted except for less staff. Also, I have a new schedule. For 8 years in my dept, I have worked Wed- Sat or Thur - Sun. Now, Saturdays are my "Monday"...I will be working Saturday - Tuesday, with Wed - Friday off....It will be the first time in 8 years that I will have Friday nights off on a regular basis. Maybe a social life will follow suit !! NOT !!
Right after graduation, Jessica, she left for the beach with her friends. They spent a week there.
I went to NY in the middle of June to see Elliot's surprise. I had guessed that he had moved into an apartment in the city. How wrong could I have been? lol....Actually, he bought a house in the little village called Freeport. It' right on the southern shore. He lives about 5 - 10 min from the beach. He has the cutest house. It was a repossession. A little 2 Story house, with a basement, and postage stamp yard.
I loved my time in NY. It was so cool....no humidity...and we had the windows up alot. I had lots of downtime with by Grand dogs.
When I returned back from NY on June 17, Andrew had flown out earlier that morning to Cleveland for 5 weeks ! :( He is visiting his grandparents (ex wife's parents) and friends, and his girlfriend. He'll return at the end of July, and be home for 1 day before we leave for NY for 2 weeks.
Jessica left this past Friday for Cleveland, with her Step Dad. They are going to up to meet up with my ex wife, Andrew, Grandparents for a vacation up there. So, I have no children at home...with the exception of the dogs and the 20 something chickens of Andrew that need feeding daily !!! It is the perfect time to do my transition to my new schedule, being I have to work 6 days straight.
In the middle of all this craziness, I've been helping my mom, move my Aunt into a Assisted Living Facility. Poor thing; the Parkinson's Disease has been progressing and she's becoming increasingly weaker. It's really sad....I think she had lived in her home for like 55 years.....My mom has had a really hard time with making the decision to put her into a home. It is difficult to know that this is the final stages of her life...and leaving the home that she lived for so long.
At the end of July, the kids and I will be heading to NY for 2 weeks to spend with Elliot...Finally, the whole family together. Life will be good !
Right after graduation, Jessica, she left for the beach with her friends. They spent a week there.
I went to NY in the middle of June to see Elliot's surprise. I had guessed that he had moved into an apartment in the city. How wrong could I have been? lol....Actually, he bought a house in the little village called Freeport. It' right on the southern shore. He lives about 5 - 10 min from the beach. He has the cutest house. It was a repossession. A little 2 Story house, with a basement, and postage stamp yard.
I loved my time in NY. It was so cool....no humidity...and we had the windows up alot. I had lots of downtime with by Grand dogs.
When I returned back from NY on June 17, Andrew had flown out earlier that morning to Cleveland for 5 weeks ! :( He is visiting his grandparents (ex wife's parents) and friends, and his girlfriend. He'll return at the end of July, and be home for 1 day before we leave for NY for 2 weeks.
Jessica left this past Friday for Cleveland, with her Step Dad. They are going to up to meet up with my ex wife, Andrew, Grandparents for a vacation up there. So, I have no children at home...with the exception of the dogs and the 20 something chickens of Andrew that need feeding daily !!! It is the perfect time to do my transition to my new schedule, being I have to work 6 days straight.
In the middle of all this craziness, I've been helping my mom, move my Aunt into a Assisted Living Facility. Poor thing; the Parkinson's Disease has been progressing and she's becoming increasingly weaker. It's really sad....I think she had lived in her home for like 55 years.....My mom has had a really hard time with making the decision to put her into a home. It is difficult to know that this is the final stages of her life...and leaving the home that she lived for so long.
At the end of July, the kids and I will be heading to NY for 2 weeks to spend with Elliot...Finally, the whole family together. Life will be good !
Friday, June 5, 2009
Graduation 2009 - Congratulations Jessica !!
Wow ! What a week !! It's been a whirlwind !
On Wednesday, June 3, Jessica performed in her Senior Showcase @ Weaver Academy. On the way there, the most horrible storm came up. It was absolutely horrible ! It was the worst storm I had been in years. I have attached a link, so you can see some of the mayhem in left in Greensboro. Jessica's concert had to be postponed for about 45 minutes, while the maintenance crews HVAC'd the water that got into the building near the stage. However, the concert did go on...and it was wonderful....Of course, i got all teary !
http://www.myfox8.com/wghp-pg-june-3-storms-090603,0,3923815.photogallery
My beautiful Daughter, Jessica, graduated from Weaver Academy for the Visual & Performing Arts on Thursday, June 4, 209 at Odell Auditorium at Greensboro College. It was absolutely beautiful ceremony. She had a graduating class of 63 kids.
I had cleaned all day and cooked for about 15 members of the family and friends who would be attending after graduation. As we were walking out of the auditorium, my 82 year old aunt fell in Odell Auditorium's Foyer. She had a wound on her elbow and her back hurt. Therefore, rest of my evening was spent in an Urgent Care ! I don't want to appear totally childish, but I was totally disappointed. I couldn't believe, on one of the most special days of my daughter's life, I was not celebrating at home with her. Instead, my ex wife and her husband, basically, hosted my party at my house....and I did all the work for it ! Don't get me wrong...they were great. I was just totally disgusted I couldn't be there. It wasn't anyone's fault...It was just an accident. However, it totally ruined the evening. I, finally, get home around 11 PM. The kids' friends were still there, so I sat up and ate while they played cards and chatted. However, to add to the nights fesitivities, it stormed all evening, and my kitchen sprung a leak !! I have lived in that house 20 years and have never had a roof leak....but of course....tonight will be my lucky night !!
However, with all the Drama....I can't be any prouder of my daughter. Jessica graduated "Cum Laude", and we didnt' even know it, till that night. She didn't even know it !
I LOVE YOU , JESSICA !!
Monday, March 30, 2009
LET's GET HEALTHY !!
Well, the days are longer and warmer ! It's time to be getting outdoors...working in the flowers and vegetable garden. Soon it will be time for swimming, hiking, playing yard games....I just haven't beenn in shape for the last few years....I'm tired of it...I complain about it...I try to ignore it...and avoid situations where I have to be half dressed publicly...i.e., swimming pools...etc.
So last Tuesday, I began eating right...and exercising....To date, I have lost 7 lbs....not bad for 5 days. Let's hope I can keep the momentum.
Currently, I feel very, very motivated to eat right and to exercise. It's not a chore at all..
So last Tuesday, I began eating right...and exercising....To date, I have lost 7 lbs....not bad for 5 days. Let's hope I can keep the momentum.
Currently, I feel very, very motivated to eat right and to exercise. It's not a chore at all..
Friday, March 6, 2009
A Late Goodbye to my Childhood Best Friend !
GOODBYE KERRY !!
Around Christmas, my kids insisted that I get a Facebook Account, convincing me that I would enjoy getting in contact with all my "long lost friends"....the jury is still out on that ! However, I have been the good 'Facebooker' and have logged on a few times and been making 'friends' with old and current friends.
Last Saturday, I was sitting at my computer and my childhood friend, Kerry Buffkin, came to my mind. I thought I would locate him on Facebook, with no success. I, then, "googled" him. Initially, I found nothing, but after a couple of minutes, I came across his mother's obituary. It stated that ...."she was preceeded in death by her husband, William Horace Buffkin and her loving son, William Kerry Buffkin...." Suddenly, I felt like I had been punched in the stomach. I just sat there...staring at the computer and thinking of many of the childhood memories that I had with Kerry. I sat thinking about the last time I talked to him...maybe 4 or 5 years earlier...He had married and had a son.
I was left with so many questions....When did he die?.....How did he die?.... What happened to his son?.....Where is Donna, his sister?
I started "Googling" his name, his mom's name...anything to get more information. Finally, I came across Legacy.com. After paying a small fee, it will locate any published Obituary for you. I found Kerry's:
William Kerry Buffkin
Mr. Buffkin, 38, of Charlotte, died Friday, January 23, 2004. A private memorial service was held at Eastway Baptist Church on Monday. Rev. Richard Howie officiated.Born in Charlotte, he was the son of Jo Ann Buffkin and the late William Horace Buffkin. A self employed Physical Fitness Trainer, he is survived, in addition to his mother, by his son, William 'Will' Kerr Buffkin, Jr. and Will's mother, Alison Buffkin; sister, Donna B. Perry and husband Joseph 'Mike' Perry; nephew, Justin C. Perry and niece, Cammie V. Perry.
Memorials may be made to the charity of one's choice in memory of Kerry.
Hartsell Funeral Home of Midland is serving the Buffkin Family.
Wow....Kerry has been gone for 5 years....and here I sit grieving over my friend. What happened to him? It's a strange feeling to have been so close to Kerry and discover he has been gone for 5 years and no opportunity to say goodbye.
I contacted the family church the following Tuesday and they contacted Donna for me. She returned my call that afternoon. She told me how coincidental it was that I was contacting her. She told me that the prior Saturday, she was in Charlotte, going through her mom's belongings and discovered a family photo album and saw pictures of Kerry and me. It's ironic that the same morning she is looking at photos of Kerry and I as kids...I'm sitting home, being compelled to look for Kerry on Facebook !
It was so good to talk to Donna. We discussed Kerry's death. I choose not to discuss it here. However, it was a senseless death and a total waste of a wonderful human being. Donna has married, has 2 children and lives in Wake Forrest now. We discussed the 'good ole days' and when Kerry and I were such close friends. I told her about Kerry spending the summer with me in 1985....2 years after high school. It was an awesome summer !! We were young and mischievious. Donna didn't know that I had even named a cat after Kerry. I named him "Buffkin". He was a siamese mix.
Donna and I talked for a couple of hours, promising to keep in touch. It was really hard to say goodbye. I'm not really sure why? Maybe, I feel like talking to Donna is like my "Memorial Service" to Kerry. I'm just not ready to say good bye...for a couple of hours, I've been transported back to my childhood, remembering my best friend. I'm not ready to come back to 5 years after his death.
Kerry, my friend, it is terribly difficult to say goodbye to you ! I hope you know...I cherish my childhood memories with you. Thank you for teaching me to let go and be a kid !!
I will never forget you, Kerry !! May You Rest in Peace !
Around Christmas, my kids insisted that I get a Facebook Account, convincing me that I would enjoy getting in contact with all my "long lost friends"....the jury is still out on that ! However, I have been the good 'Facebooker' and have logged on a few times and been making 'friends' with old and current friends.
Last Saturday, I was sitting at my computer and my childhood friend, Kerry Buffkin, came to my mind. I thought I would locate him on Facebook, with no success. I, then, "googled" him. Initially, I found nothing, but after a couple of minutes, I came across his mother's obituary. It stated that ...."she was preceeded in death by her husband, William Horace Buffkin and her loving son, William Kerry Buffkin...." Suddenly, I felt like I had been punched in the stomach. I just sat there...staring at the computer and thinking of many of the childhood memories that I had with Kerry. I sat thinking about the last time I talked to him...maybe 4 or 5 years earlier...He had married and had a son.
I was left with so many questions....When did he die?.....How did he die?.... What happened to his son?.....Where is Donna, his sister?
I started "Googling" his name, his mom's name...anything to get more information. Finally, I came across Legacy.com. After paying a small fee, it will locate any published Obituary for you. I found Kerry's:
William Kerry Buffkin
Mr. Buffkin, 38, of Charlotte, died Friday, January 23, 2004. A private memorial service was held at Eastway Baptist Church on Monday. Rev. Richard Howie officiated.Born in Charlotte, he was the son of Jo Ann Buffkin and the late William Horace Buffkin. A self employed Physical Fitness Trainer, he is survived, in addition to his mother, by his son, William 'Will' Kerr Buffkin, Jr. and Will's mother, Alison Buffkin; sister, Donna B. Perry and husband Joseph 'Mike' Perry; nephew, Justin C. Perry and niece, Cammie V. Perry.
Memorials may be made to the charity of one's choice in memory of Kerry.
Hartsell Funeral Home of Midland is serving the Buffkin Family.
Wow....Kerry has been gone for 5 years....and here I sit grieving over my friend. What happened to him? It's a strange feeling to have been so close to Kerry and discover he has been gone for 5 years and no opportunity to say goodbye.
I contacted the family church the following Tuesday and they contacted Donna for me. She returned my call that afternoon. She told me how coincidental it was that I was contacting her. She told me that the prior Saturday, she was in Charlotte, going through her mom's belongings and discovered a family photo album and saw pictures of Kerry and me. It's ironic that the same morning she is looking at photos of Kerry and I as kids...I'm sitting home, being compelled to look for Kerry on Facebook !
It was so good to talk to Donna. We discussed Kerry's death. I choose not to discuss it here. However, it was a senseless death and a total waste of a wonderful human being. Donna has married, has 2 children and lives in Wake Forrest now. We discussed the 'good ole days' and when Kerry and I were such close friends. I told her about Kerry spending the summer with me in 1985....2 years after high school. It was an awesome summer !! We were young and mischievious. Donna didn't know that I had even named a cat after Kerry. I named him "Buffkin". He was a siamese mix.
Donna and I talked for a couple of hours, promising to keep in touch. It was really hard to say goodbye. I'm not really sure why? Maybe, I feel like talking to Donna is like my "Memorial Service" to Kerry. I'm just not ready to say good bye...for a couple of hours, I've been transported back to my childhood, remembering my best friend. I'm not ready to come back to 5 years after his death.
Kerry, my friend, it is terribly difficult to say goodbye to you ! I hope you know...I cherish my childhood memories with you. Thank you for teaching me to let go and be a kid !!
I will never forget you, Kerry !! May You Rest in Peace !
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Significant Snowfall in NC ?
Sunday, March 1.....Finally, a Winter Storm Warning !!! Therefore we have a chance for Significant snowfall....possibly 4 - 6 inches forecasted !! The Only downfall, is I have to work tonight. It's not that I mind driving in the snow....It's just sad I have to work and can't enjoy it.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
WHAT A ROLLER COASTER OF A WEEK !!
Finally, the current economic crisis has hit the company I work. Layoffs were inevitable and announcements were made this week. I knew at least 10 -1 5 of the impacted people. How terribly sad ! Several of the impacted people were folks I have considered friends. In fact, one was a guy I had dated a couple of years ago. Most of these people were high tenured people with the company, having given15 - 20 years of their lives. I'm sure they are feeling of a sense of betrayal. I know I would. It's hard to imagine that some of the people I have worked with and socialized with, will no longer be apart of our company.
However, the big news in my life.....I have reconnected with an old flame. He's someone I have not stopped caring for since our relationship had a sudden end in the fall. Brian made the initiative to contact me last weekend. He asked if I would have coffee with him on Monday, of course, I accepted. I was really interested in seeing him and my reaction. Well...My heart skipped a beat when I saw him standing in front of Barnes & Noble. We decided to have dinner, being neither of us had eaten. I really sat back and listened to him. He apologized for the fall and we discussed if there was enough between us to pick up and see where this relationship would lead. We, both, decided we wanted to move forward. We made plans for Thursday.
On Tuesday, Brian texted and wondered if I would be up for going to dinner. Of Course, I was up for it ! We had dinner at Carrabbas . Afterwards, we went to Starbucks and cuddled in the car. On Thursday, after work, we were back at a Starbucks again, and cuddling in the car. He asked if he could go to church with me. I am flattered, excited, nervous...etc. He's beginning to enter my world. After church, we will go to lunch and then he plans to spend the afternoon with me until his super bowl party.
I am trying hard to contain my feelings. It's funny. I cared for him deeply last fall and still do today. I truly believe in the goodness within him. I'm looking forward to seeing what the future holds for us.
However, the big news in my life.....I have reconnected with an old flame. He's someone I have not stopped caring for since our relationship had a sudden end in the fall. Brian made the initiative to contact me last weekend. He asked if I would have coffee with him on Monday, of course, I accepted. I was really interested in seeing him and my reaction. Well...My heart skipped a beat when I saw him standing in front of Barnes & Noble. We decided to have dinner, being neither of us had eaten. I really sat back and listened to him. He apologized for the fall and we discussed if there was enough between us to pick up and see where this relationship would lead. We, both, decided we wanted to move forward. We made plans for Thursday.
On Tuesday, Brian texted and wondered if I would be up for going to dinner. Of Course, I was up for it ! We had dinner at Carrabbas . Afterwards, we went to Starbucks and cuddled in the car. On Thursday, after work, we were back at a Starbucks again, and cuddling in the car. He asked if he could go to church with me. I am flattered, excited, nervous...etc. He's beginning to enter my world. After church, we will go to lunch and then he plans to spend the afternoon with me until his super bowl party.
I am trying hard to contain my feelings. It's funny. I cared for him deeply last fall and still do today. I truly believe in the goodness within him. I'm looking forward to seeing what the future holds for us.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Where Does the Time Go !!
Wow ! It's been almost 3 weeks since making a post. Where does the time go ? ! Mainly, I have been working ...I've spending alot of time in software development training with my company. So, I have been working on my days off. I've really been enjoying it and feeling like I'm starting to catch on !! Finally !!!!! Of Course, I still have my part time job at Pier One. I still work their about 15 hours a week. The sales have been great...and I've spent quite a bit of money on Christmas for 2009. What can I say....75% off ....then I get 25% off that with my employee discount !! I'm a sucker for a sale !
It is January 19 and I still have the Christmas Tree up !! Most of the ornaments and lights are still on. I began undecorating last week, but, with work and all....didn't get it finished.
The weather feels alot like winter, now. Friday and Saturday morning, the temps were around 8 degrees. Brrrrrr !!!
I went to church again today. I really enjoy College Park. Jeff and Mark invited me to lunch again...They are the cutest couple ! I really like them and wish them the best. Christy and Jessica are another couple whom I have gotton to know. They have made me feel so welcome.
I'm looking forward to the week. President-elect, Obama, and vice president-elect, Biden will be inaugurated on Tuesday, Jan 20. It looks like the crowds are going to be of historic proportions. I am keeping the kids home from school so they can watch it all on TV. I feel that their schools will not spend the necessary time on the event.
It is January 19 and I still have the Christmas Tree up !! Most of the ornaments and lights are still on. I began undecorating last week, but, with work and all....didn't get it finished.
The weather feels alot like winter, now. Friday and Saturday morning, the temps were around 8 degrees. Brrrrrr !!!
I went to church again today. I really enjoy College Park. Jeff and Mark invited me to lunch again...They are the cutest couple ! I really like them and wish them the best. Christy and Jessica are another couple whom I have gotton to know. They have made me feel so welcome.
I'm looking forward to the week. President-elect, Obama, and vice president-elect, Biden will be inaugurated on Tuesday, Jan 20. It looks like the crowds are going to be of historic proportions. I am keeping the kids home from school so they can watch it all on TV. I feel that their schools will not spend the necessary time on the event.
Friday, January 2, 2009
HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!! 2009
HAPPY NEW YEAR Welcome 2009 !! What will you bring ? ! I pray for a year of health and prosperity. I pray for the health, wisdom and safety of our New President Elect, Barack Obama and his family. I pray for an Incredible Year of positive change in our economy and government !
I do know that 2009 will bring a High School Graduation in our family. Jessica graduates in early June !! She's grown up to be a beautiful, young lady. Not only beautiful on the outside, but on the inside. Also, College for her in the fall at UNC-Greensboro.
I am hoping for a family vacation in the summer of 2009, if my job holds out ( no layoff). Jessica and Andrew have never been to Washington, D.C. and really would like to go. So, I'm planning to take them to DC this summer for a few days, fly Elliot down to be with us, and then we will all drive up to NYC to stay with Elliot for a week. I hope it will be a wonderful vacation !!
I, also, hope to get much more of the house remodel, completed before Jessica's graduation. I imagine we will be doing a bit of entertaining around that time.
If you look back, I deemed 2007 as the "Year Of the Tear". Looking back over 2008...How do I wrap up the Year? Hmmm? It was a good year....but it was a Year of Goodbyes. During 2008, My Aunt Katy died, as well as other friends: Cliff Bailey, Barry Shoemaker, and Betty Crotts. Each one of these people were wonderful in their own way. It was not only a loss for me, but for many. Good people, they were !
In 2008, I discovered a wonderful church to be apart. College Park Baptist on Aycock Street in Greensboro. It's a progressive church in the sense that it accepts all people....whether gay or straight. It's just not an issue there !! In so many ways, it feels like I've come home....but it's been kind of hard getting to know people. I work such an odd schedule...so of course, it's difficult to hang out with anyone.
We elected a new President in 2008 !! BARACK OBAMA !! The Country seems to want change. I pray he can provide the change necessary to make us a great country again !
As of yet, there is no significant theme for 2008...nothing clear cut. However, it will be a year to be remembered.
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